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    “A great self care book for women. Reflective, relevant, right on point.”–Anonymous


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    Mother Teresa said, “To keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it.” Most women are so busy filling the lamps of the people they love that they let their own lamps run low. They spend so much time and energy taking care of their children, husbands, aging parents, friends, neighbors, bosses, coworkers, and others that they often neglect themselves.

    Awareness is the first step toward solving a problem. So the first section of Oil for Your Lamp is devoted to helping us acknowledge the problem and understand the reasons for it. The first section of the book looks at how girls are socialized, growing up to be women who put others first. Subsequently, it examine the values women have adopted in the past fifty years, beginning with the feminist movement—leading us to believe that we can have it all—all at once. And then explores the corresponding myth that we can DO it all.

    But don’t be discouraged. Help is on the way—in the second section, we’ll get into solutions for the problem. We’ll learn the value of doing nothing, how to play again, how to become more inner-directed, and most important, how to ask for help.

    It’s the new golden rule for women: “Do unto yourself as you would do to others.”

    • Details:
    • Format: Hardcover
    • Trim Size: 6.5" x 6.5"
    • Page Count: 128
    • Video Run Time: 1 min 53 secs
    • eBook Format: .epub
    • Audio Format: mp3

    About Authors

    BJ GALLAGHER is an inspirational author and speaker. She writes business books that educate and empower, women’s books that enlighten and entertain, gift books that inspire and inform, and kids’ books that charm and delight. Whether her audience is corporate executives, working women, or a group of giggling youngsters, her message is powerful, positive and practical. BJ’s international best-seller, A Peacock in the Land of Penguins, has sold over 300,000 copies in 22 languages. Her additional books include It’s Never Too Late to Be What You Might Have Been, Why Don’t I Do the Things I Know are Good for Me?, Learning to Dance in the Rain, The Best Way Out is Always Through, Oh, Thank Goodness, It’s Not Just Me!, Oil for Your Lamp, Friends, The Road to Happiness, The Power of Positive Doing, The Power of One, and The Leadership Secrets of Oz.

    BJ and her books have been featured on CBS Evening News with Bob Schieffer, The Today Show with Matt Lauer, Fox News, PBS, CNN, and other television and radio programs. She has been quoted in various newspapers, women’s magazines, and websites, including: O the Oprah Magazine, Redbook, Woman’s World, Ladies Home Journal, First for Women, New York Times, Chicago Tribune, Wall Street Journal, Christian Science Monitor, Orlando Sentinel, Financial Times (U.K.), The Guardian (U.K.),,, and

    In addition to writing books, BJ also conducts seminars and delivers keynotes at conferences across the country. Her clients include: IBM, Chevron, U.S. Veterans Administration, John Deere Credit Canada, Volkswagen, Farm Credit Services of America, Raytheon, U.S. Department of Interior, Phoenix Newspapers Inc., The American Press Institute, Infiniti, Nissan, U.S. Army, and Atlanta Journal Constitution, among others.

    LISA HAMMOND founded Femail Creations, a mail order catalog and website for unique gifts for women. In addition to running her own companies and writing books, Lisa is a sought after business consultant for companies and individuals seeking creative advice.

    What Readers are Saying

    Average Rating:
    4.7 (based on 56 reviews)

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    • more than 2 year(s)
    07/191/2018 07/11/2018
    • 5.0
    I would buy this book again.
    The book came quickly, it is a present for my daughter for Christmas
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      • more than 2 year(s)
      11/313/2018 11/10/2018
      • 5.0
      Recommend this book to everyone I know!
      This book says it wonderfully and in so many different ways to appeal to women in all circumstances the value of taking care of themselves!
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        Super Sam
        01/14/2016 01/15/2016
        (4 of 4 customers found this review helpful)
        • 5.0
        The right book for the right time
        Sent this book to my sister who is going thru a hard time with a very sick taking the time for herself she has been able to cope with her husbands failing illness. Thank you
          Bottom Line:
          Yes, I would recommend this to a friend
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          Coach Jozie
          11/309/2015 11/06/2015
          (2 of 2 customers found this review helpful)
          • 5.0
          Oil for Your Lamp
          Every wife and mother need this book!
            Bottom Line:
            Yes, I would recommend this to a friend
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            Big Girl Now - retired.
            05/138/2015 05/19/2015
            (3 of 4 customers found this review helpful)
            • 5.0
            A great self care book for women
            I received this book as a gift. The timing was perfect as I was burning the candle at both ends. Reflective, relevant, right on point. I have used it as a gift for women in my life and as the basis of presentations for women. A very powerful message. If you can't tell, I love this book!
              Bottom Line:
              Yes, I would recommend this to a friend
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